How to Talk about LGBTQ Topics with Kids

Kids are curious and observant with lots of questions and comments. When these are about gender and sexual orientation, their own or other people’s, it can be difficult to know how to respond.

• Are you a boy or a girl?
• Nora has a crush on Maria.
• They made fun of me and said that boys don’t wear dresses.
• Why does Julie have two moms?
• What’s gay mean?
• She has a boy haircut!
• My teacher is Mx. Smith. Why?

Join us to learn how to address questions and curiosity around gender and sexual orientation with the children and youth in your life. This workshop’s introduction to current terminology, skill-building, and interactive practice will help you feel more comfortable and confident.

The skills taught will help you approach the conversation with compassion and curiosity, which works well for all ages. We will also discuss how to tailor your responses to be appropriate for different age groups, especially elementary school aged children. This workshop is appropriate for parents, grandparents, pastors, teachers, and anyone interacting with children regularly.

This workshop will not focus on the theology around LGBTQ topics but will give you practical tools to address conversations with children and youth.

Dr. Lesley Huff holds a Doctorate of Psychology with a specialization in Family and Marriage Therapy. She is a licensed psychologist and a certified teacher of Mindful Self-Compassion. She leads the Change Through Compassion program at the Samaritan Center and routinely facilitates trainings for large and small groups.